Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never
seem to be attracted “nice” guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that
always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were
never romantically interested in YOU.

What’s going on here?

It’s actually very simple…

Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is.
They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT
LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and
it’s hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER
have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You”

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY
like… but she’s just notinterested?

Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN
“FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with
“logic and reasoning”.

Think about it.

If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you
expect to change that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do
our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will
make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a
woman’s “approval” or “permission”.

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to
them… EVER.

Don’t get me wrong here.

You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always
getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually
get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase
her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner,
bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone
who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It’s only NATURAL when this happens…

That’s right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

“I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try
to buy your attention and affection”.

Your good intentions usually come across to women as
over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at
manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as
MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship
With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with
women is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are being
approached in one way or another ALL THE

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by
men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per
week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her
running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts
saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two
dates.

This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other
guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves.

Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax.

There’s a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY
feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or
is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I
can tell you that women usually have their “attraction
mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and
unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and
they’re attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are
to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful
sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy
young woman.

But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up
before they’ve even gotten started… because they think that
attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and
money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a
certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these
things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality
than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be
one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t
rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language
and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same
kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you
see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for
approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING
AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing
whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over…
Women aren’t attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of
Situation With Women

Now I’m going to blow your mind…

A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading
body language. That’s ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re
out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows
it.

And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss
her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous,
she won’t help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing
her, getting physical… everything.

If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will
probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one
step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the
way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the
kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or
helpless. We don’t like to ask for help.

Hey, I’ve been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to
be successful with women…

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn’t
know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was
attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to
ask out, but I just couldn’t get up the nerve to do it. I can
still remember that night… right on the spot I made the
decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful
with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy
things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number
almost instantly. I’ve dated models, I’ve dated actresses, and
I’ve dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that
sick, insecure feeling… like I don’t know how to meet women…
and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive
women.

I’ve written a book on the topic, and I’ve done seminars on both
coasts of the United States… and taught tens of thousands of
men all around the world.

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The age old question of who should pay on a date or in a relationship, the man or the woman? Most people would agree that the man should pay but this becomes a problem when the man pays too much. He opens up his wallet hoping that at the end of the night the woman will open up her pants. Often he is shut down and better off buying a hooker instead.

Paying on Dates

It’s silly to think that the amount of money you throw down on a date will determine whether or not you are getting lucky tonight but is it really?

Most men are complete schmucks when it comes to women. This forces women to settle on many levels for men who just don’t get it. If almost all the men women meet don’t make them feel any sort of attraction why not go for the best looking or the ones with the most money?

This is exactly what I (and I’m sure you would too) would do if all the women I met were extremely boring or needy. If all of them used the same pickup line or complimented me way too much I would go for the best looking ones.

The problem men will face when coughing up the loot on dates is that there will always be someone with more money than you and thus a bigger better deal. There will always be other men with larger wallets and you just can’t compete.

I recently got an email from a reader telling me about this date he went on with a girl. He spent over 350$ for the night and didn’t even get a good night kiss. He sent her a box of chocolates a couple days later and didn’t even get a simple thank you. Rough.

A lot of men try to impress women by taking them out to a fancy restaurant and spending a lot of money. Often they spend beyond their means in an attempt to get some action from the girl. It’s a big mistake that men never seem to catch onto.

They spend all of this money and don’t even get a good night kiss. The money would be better spent buying a hooker instead. At least with the hooker you are guaranteed to get laid.

There is nothing wrong with paying but it’s downright stupid to think paying will actually get you laid. You aren’t impressing anyone. This will send a clear message to the woman that you are very needy because you look for her approval by trying to impress her.

If you want to pay for dinner, fine but do it because you want to and not because you think you will get something in return. Don’t give to get because more often than not you will end up with nothing in return.

If it’s part of your normal life to go out to restaurants and eat fancy food then it’s ok to include her in your mission. But if it’s not part of your normal life than your plans will fall apart very quickly.

Spoiled women to avoid

Believe it or not there are women out there that will take full advantage of your “generosity.” They know that there will be no future relationship between you two so they use you to get a free meal. They agree to your date in order to get a couple of free drinks and dinner at a fancy restaurant. Often they will call it an early night and then go out with a guy they are really attracted to.

Women aren’t entirely to blame for this because it wasn’t like she pulled a gun out and forced you to take her to a nice restaurant. You are a player in this game as well.

There are many signs of a spoiled woman that you should be aware of. First thing you need to do is to stop thinking about getting laid and start having standards. If you are desperate for female company and will take anything you can get women will pick up on this. Spoiled women will be able to spot you from a mile away because you are an ideal target.

While there are many signs of a spoiled woman the biggest sign is that she is a taker and not a giver. If you meet her out at a club or bar and one of the first few things she says to you is “can you buy me a drink?” she’s a taker.

Takers are just that, they take and they take. Women (and men) who take from you will offer very little value in return for what you give.

Avoid these ‘buy me a drink’ woman as if they were the plague. No good can come out of dating women like this and you will be sorry in the end. You will end up paying for it in more ways than one.

Some women will actually make a game out of getting free drinks. They will leave the house with no money in order to see if they can drink for free for the night. This is only made possible by men like you.

Some times you don’t meet them in a club or bar and will be unable to tell if she’s a taker or not right away. In this case there are two things that you can do:

1. When the check comes just stare at her. If she makes no attempt what so ever to offer to pay then she’s a taker.

2. Take her to some place that involves little to no money. If you are a ‘cheap date’ and she becomes annoyed or disappointed by this then she’s a taker.

Taker in relationships

I was out eating the other day when I overheard two girls talking. One wanted to get something really expensive and she said “oh well, I’ll just have my boyfriend buy it. He should buy it anyways” and just laughed. No he shouldn’t because men are not ATM’s.

It’s nice to give to others but it becomes an issue when they expect you to give and start making demands. Would your girlfriend be upset if you suddenly stopped spoiling her? How would she react if you told her no when she asked for something? If she gets extremely upset and throws a temper tantrum then she is a spoiled woman who is a taker.

The Keepers

It’s not about being cheap in life, it’s about finding women who don’t let money determine another persons value. The problem with dating spoiled women is that money can easily come and go. What happens if you lose your job and suddenly you find yourself dead broke? Will she still stick around?

The women to look for are the ones who will offer to pay even if you decide to pay for the meal. The ones to date are the ones who will still like you regardless of how much you spend on them. The ones to keep in your life are the ones who don’t need it but truly appreciate it when you do “spoil” them.

These types of women are givers who will contribute a lot to your life. These women will give and give and make you desire to give back to them. Not because you are obligated but because you generally want to give.

To recap, go for women who enjoy your company and not your wallet. Raise your standards to avoid these spoiled women. And if you still believe that paying for a meal will get you laid you are better off buying a hooker instead.

Okay listen up…

I am going to reveal to you the number #1 mistake men make when it comes to attracting and dating beautiful women.

What do you think is the reason why most guys out there just can’t get a date, a number or a kiss from a woman?

It’s because they treat every single woman like a princess and put them on a pedestal … whereas they should really treat them like their little bratty sister. This is what gets women attracted and fall in love with you.

If you act like a clingy, needy nice-guy then no wonder women tell you that they just want to be friends with you.

When you see an attractive woman, what do you do to get her attention? Do you go up to her and pay her a compliment? Do you ask her if she wants a drink? Do you tell her how beautiful she is? Do you introduce yourself and ask what her name is?

Man, why do you make me bang my head on my keyboard? You won’t get a woman to give you her phone number like that! Now look, most guys think that to successfully attract a woman, you need to be nice to them, drive a sports car, have a load of cash in your wallet and work out every week just to look a bit like Arnold.

You couldn’t be more wrong. It’s all bullshit!

In fact, you may have just made the biggest mistake in your life when it comes to women and dating. Every guy on this planet has been brainwashed into the belief that women will want to be with you if you are nice to them, treat them like a princess and pay for drinks and dinner.

You couldn’t be further from the truth. But it’s not your fault. Blame TV, Hollywood and magazines. You have been conditioned to believe that this is what makes women get attracted to you.

Now listen, me and many of my friends who are true ladies-men aren’t rich, good looking or handsome. We’re just regular guys like you.

But we can get so many phone numbers from women one single day you wouldn’t even believe me if I told you.

So what’s our secret? How do we do it?

It’s because we tease women, we accuse them of hitting on us, bust their balls and are cheeky when we talk to them. We are the complete opposite of what a clingy nice-guy does. We don’t offer them drinks, we don’t pay compliments and we certainly don’t invite them to a romantic candle light dinner.

And guess what?

They LOVE us for that. Women get attracted and want to be with men that are different from all the other guys they have dated in the past…and we give them precisely that.

So if you want to be able to do the same and literally get women to fight for YOUR attention, start treating them like your bratty little sister and say “HEY! Will you stop staring at my ass all the time? I’m not a sex-object you know?”

Once you truly GET IT what makes women attracted to men, you can write your own ticket in the dating world.

Keep it up!